Memorial Service
April 1, 2023
11:00 AM to 1:00 PM
Perazzo Funeral Home
199 Bleecker St.
New York City, NY 10012
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March 23, 2023
RONALD RAYMOND GRUBERG, Ed.D., emeritus professor of psychology, distinguished jazz bassist, veteran of the United States Marine Corps, beloved husband, father, grandfather, and unfailing friend, passed away at home peacefully with his loving wife Debbie by his side on March 23, 2023, at the age of 90.
Ron was born on March 20, 1933, in Montgomery, NY, to Catherine Fatt (née Johnson) and Louis Gruberg. In his early years, Ron lived in Newburgh, NY, where he attended and graduated from Newburgh Free Academy. In 1951, Ron enlisted in the United States Marine Corps and served in the Korean War, achieving the rank of Lance Corporal. After returning from overseas, Ron pursued his education, earning a Bachelor's Degree at Hartwick College in New York, a Master's Degree in Psychology from Springfield College in Massachusetts, and a Doctorate in Education from Albany State College in New York. For more than 40 years, Ron was a professor of psychology at CUNY and PACE universities in New York City.
Ron was also an accomplished jazz bassist who worked with an impressive list of musicians. In the 1960s, he was a pick-up bassist for Stan Getz and Mose Allison. He was the bassist in the Anthony Zano Trio and recorded the album "Everything Swings" with that group in 1965. Ron had the opportunity to work with many other noted musicians, including Lee Evans, Joe Roccisano, Sandy Feldstein, and the Australian Jazz Quintet. In the 1980s, Ron was a regular performer in Bridgehampton at The Sugar Plum and Bobby Van’s.
In addition to his professional pursuits, Ron enjoyed living in Greenwich Village, surrounded by the many close friends he made over the years. Ron had an outgoing personality, quick wit, and natural charisma that drew people to him, and he could often be heard engaging in good-natured banter with those he liked. However, his greatest joy came from the time he spent with his beloved wife, Deborah Gruberg. For over 35 years, they traveled the world together and enjoyed each other’s company and the unconditional love of their dogs.
Ron was a truly remarkable man who brightened and enriched the lives of his family and many cherished friends whose passing leaves a deep void. He is survived by his loving wife, Debbie; his daughter, Lisa Piccone-Garcia, her husband, Juan Antonio, and their son, Samuel; his stepson, Bradley Schuber, his wife, Barbara, and their children, Annalise and Henry; and his faithful dog, Georgette.
A wake for Ron will take place from 11:00 a.m. to 1:00 p.m. on Saturday, April 1, 2023, at Perazzo Funeral Home, 199 Bleecker Street, New York, NY. In lieu of flowers, friends and family are invited to consider making a donation to The Humane Society of New York.
April 1, 2023
11:00 AM to 1:00 PM
Perazzo Funeral Home
199 Bleecker St.
New York City, NY 10012
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Ron was the best friend a person could ever have! ???
When I was in my early 20s, I was enrolled at university. At that point, I had maybe a 2.0 GPA ... I rarely went to class and was thinking about dropping out. But for some reason, I signed up for a 7 a.m. “early bird” class. I had a two-hour trek to campus and would wake up at 4:45 a.m. to get there on time. The professor who taught the class was Dr. Gruberg. I did well on his first few tests, and one day after class, he pulled me aside and asked, “What’s your story? What’s your GPA?” I told him. He literally poked me in the chest and said, “Get your sh*t together. I don’t tell many students this, but you can go get a PhD in clinical psychology.” I don’t know what it was... maybe he reminded me of my grandfather, that is, tough and old school - but I listened to him. That moment changed my life. I dedicated myself to my education and ended up graduating with a 3.84 GPA. I didn’t go into clinical psychology, but I did go into neuroscience in graduate school. Dr. Gruberg altered the trajectory of my life. He was also, I must say, in all my years at university, the only truly patriotic professor I ever had - and I absolutely loved that about him. He was like an antidote to the constant negativity. To this day, I tell my friends that Dr. Gruberg was the only professor I had who ever thought the USA was a great country. I loved visiting him in his office, where he’d give me books on politics and psychology to read and tell stories... like the time he accidentally hypnotized himself! I’m sorry I learned of his passing so late. I hope his family members see this and know what he did for me (and I'm sure many others). Again, Dr. Gruberg completely changed the course of my life. He was a great man. May he rest in peace, and may his memory be a blessing... it surely is for me.